Meeting a guy off myspace?

hey everyone, so ive been talking to this guy on myspace for about a month now, no phone convos. but just through messages %26amp; msn. we are both adults, he currently lives a state away, but he is going to move closer to where i live soon, not because of me, just for his job, and he wants to hang out. i think hes really cute, %26amp; he feels the same vise versa. i know hes real because freinds of his leave him comments asking him to hang out with them on certain days, and he has videos of himself on there stating his name %26amp; stuff. he seems to be very fun, but is it dangerous to meet people off myspace? he said he wants to make cookies w/me...haha! idk what he means by that. is a 'meeting' at starbucks ok? please let me know pros %26amp; cons, also some advice, if you've met someone offline. please share your story. thanks!

Meeting a guy off myspace?

i met over 10 people from myspace in person.. and i'm 100% serious....!

there's nothing wrong.. as long as the person seems real on phone and online ...msn,... etc.

trust me.. i have a friend now that's totally cool..

and i had a boyfriend that i met there... he was cool.. but ended up not being with him for other reasons.. so it's perfectly FINE! if you believe the dude is cool :)

good luck.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

dont meet anyone on myspace that is dangerous

Meeting a guy off myspace?

Be very cautious.......

-Good Luck-

Meeting a guy off myspace?

hm I think its good that you're meeting at a public place

like starbucks.

the only thing that i think is bad is that you're meeting somebody offline. but it seems okay since he has a video on his page of him.

just be careful.

maybe take a friend along.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

well, do waht your heart tells you - cheezy inst it, but i really mean it

Meeting a guy off myspace?

just make sure you take your pepperspray, and that you tell someone where you are, who you are with, and kepp yourself in the public eye at all times. People hide who they are on the internet.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

just dont let him know where you live...

make sure if you go anywhere with him that someone knows where you are, knows the plates on his car ect.

Meeting people on myspace isnt as dangerous as people think... they just have to be safe, like they are with any other date.

have fun!

Meeting a guy off myspace?

don't! because u never know. Bring some friends and make it a double date that's the way u will always be safe. If its true love go for it

Meeting a guy off myspace?

i met someone online and it worked out okay for a while but we had several phone convos. if i were you i would ask if you could call him and whatever and if you do go to meet him then bring a friend idk "just incase". good luck =)

Meeting a guy off myspace?

Yes there are LOTs of reasons to be careful. Suggest that u two meet in public places and if he's not ok with that then i would rethink it. But what do i know i'm a paranoic.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

Say I will bring my friends with me. Don't go on your own.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

I would say no to that but the videos and comments make it seem alright and i think that Starbucks would be good. (make sure its a public area)

Meeting a guy off myspace?

just telling you the right choice of what i would do you dont have to listen to me but i have a myspace and i oonly request poeple i know and stuff if i was you DONT GO ON A DATE WITH HIM! HE could be lieing to you and wants to do something else to you but if you do to go for a meeting go with a friend or something or were people are that see everything

Meeting a guy off myspace?

if you really want to meet him, go ahead, but make sure you meet him in a public place (as you're already doing, good for you!) the first few times you meet in person. thoroughly get to know him before you hang out with him alone. you don't want him to be a psycho or rapist or something. good luck!

Meeting a guy off myspace?

It is a potentially dangerous situation. I would talk over the phone first- just to insure a connection. If you do decide that you have to meet this guy- I would defiantly just meet for something simple like coffee. Starbucks is a good spot because its very public, and there are a lot of people around. I would even recommend bringing a friend...you can never be too safe, but you will regret if something ever did happen and you didn't take precautions...

Meeting a guy off myspace?

well yes it is dangerous, but you are both adults, and if you meet in a public place it is safer, as long as you trust your heart, and by the way...as far as i know baking cookies with you means he wants to father your children

Meeting a guy off myspace?

If you're both adults, it should be okay, as long as you meet during the day in a public place. Do not rush into anything, trust your gut instinct, and always have a way out. If you meet once and decide to meet again, repeat the daytime public place meeting until you're quite certain that this dude is not a psychopath.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

U should not go by ur self to meet him, take someone else with u...u know, and there is nothing wrong with meeting him just be very careful ok...good luck

Meeting a guy off myspace?

You naive little girl. It is more than hazardous to meet some one from myspace- it is a national danger. DO NOT DO IT, i repeat DO NOT DO IT.

It doesn't matter how old you are, he can and will RAPE and KILL you. You don't know whatever type of person you think you know is real, people who do this are extremely good atit and any videos, pictures, etc. could have easily been some one elses. Woman ages 30+ have been victims of cyber pal meetings gone bad, and though there have been a few successful meetings of friends online, the risk is so high you should NOT try it.

He doesn't want to bake with you, he wants to have sex with you, and you can bet if he's putting forth the effort to meet up with you that is the first and only thing on his mind.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

I would not meet him alone. take a friend with you and check the atmosphere but when you get and he seems okay have your friend have a way to get home. just check him out first

Meeting a guy off myspace?

if you do decided to meet him go some place public like the mall for example that way if things get bad there are tons of people around

also let your friends know where your going etc. and have them "bump" into you, if things are going good tell them you will see them later, but if things are bad have a secret word related to the place your at that means things are bad, and have them come up with a reason for you to leave

if you do think things are fine and your friends leave, still check in with them on an hourly bases, a text saying whats going on that way they dont have to worry, and also to let someone know if anything goes wrong, also NEVER EVER leave with him, if he asks you to go to his place etc. tell him you have to work in the morning and should get home to bed, if he offers to follow you home tell him that theres no need, if he still insist on following you home just leave and have a friend at your house waiting along with cops

well good luck

and be VERY careful

Meeting a guy off myspace?

as i see it, dont worry about meeting with people off the internet. what you might need to do though, is give it a wait.

dont just rush to see him because he's in town. wait for him to nag you for a long time. the longer they nag you, the more they love you.

also, bring a friend, but dont meet the person with a friend.... it'll show you dont trust them. have the friend(s) (should be peopel willing to protect you, just in case) stay away, but be in range in case something happens.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

it is totally dangerous to meet people off line and to get into a relationship with them when you have only talked online. i hope you would have more self respect than that.

Good luck and boost the self respect. find someone in ur area.

Meeting a guy off myspace?

Don't meet this dude. Unless you want to be stalked, raped, beat up, or in a garbage bag filled with pieces of you. Its never safe to meet someone that you meet online. Please find someone else for your own safety.