Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

They are old classmates, coworkers, and Army buddies that I still keep in contact with via myspace. I have never had an intimate relationship with any of them. I have never given him a reason not to trust me. We've been married 5 years. His reasoning is that if I feel like I need to have guy friends, then he has failed as a husband.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

If it bothers him, sure. But, he needs to do a bit of spring cleaning himself.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

he is insecure

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

no way tell him grow some ; and stop worring about nothing.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

he is being unreasonable and probably feel jealous and thinks he might loose you

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

get rid of them, stop trying to annoy him.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD NEED GUY FRIENDS. THE ONLY GUY YOU SHOULD NEED IS GOD AND YOUR HUSBAND.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

Sounds like he has a personal problem. I would not delete my old Navy buddies. Married men and women are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

don't do it... these were your friends before him and not lovers

does he have any female friends? no difference

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

There shouldn't be a problem with what you're doing.

As long as you're not having cyber sex or anything ya know?

I got rid of all info of my old guy friends when my ex told me to. I still regret that - they were great friends....

My hubby now - he doesn't mind cause he knows I won't cheat.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

I think in your paticular situation he's being a little insecure. Maybe you could introduce them over the phone or something to put him at ease a little more.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

Usually when people are defensive about their privacy they have something to hide.

I think generally My Space Accts are used to hook up with other people

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

Aren't you both a little too old for myspace anyway? Your husband is just asking you for respect and thats not wrong. Be mature and suck it up.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

Well the fact that he has female friends on myspace makes me say yes it is unreasonable.

That being said, I think it is inappropriate for Married people to have friends of the opposite sex. An occasional contact with old friends is one thing. Having them on myspace contacting you regularly is an entirely different matter.

If he expects you to loose the guy friends, then he should loose the gal pals.

If my hubby had old gal pals that he was in constant contact with, then I would be upset. If we ran into an old friend at the grocery store and stopped and chatted for a minute, then I would not be threatend by that. But I would not be in constant contact with old guy friends.

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

I respect and try to honor my husband, as I am sure you do yours. My question is what brought this up, after 5 years of marriage? So you made the effort with his friends and your friends are scattered. In My space, is there an option to co-mingle the sites? How about the option of starting a Yahoo group exclusive to you, your husband and all of your friends from both of your -my spaces. Might be an option to keep the friendships and settle any discomforts your husband has, he can also interact and get to know them as well, set a planned reunion date. Husband can meet them in person then. Most husbands, even the insecure ones are willing to make concessions that are reasonable, see if he will meet you half way. Could be you husband might just need a little more personal one on one time with you. let him know he is special to you. Husbands like love letters too.

Hugs

Is it reasonable for my husband to request that I delete old guy friends from myspace?

Honestly I think MySpace is a relationship DESTROYER. I think if that stupid site is causing ANY kind of rift in your mariage, you BOTH should just get rid of it. Seriously, we're talking about marriage here. Do you really want to put a damper on your relationship for some guys you never see anyways? But in the same respect, he should get rid of his too. It doesnt matter who's met who or not. Gotta look at the bigger picture here.... It's your MARRIAGE. Now if he starts doing things like wanting you to quit going out with your friends, or seeing your family and such, then you guys have a big problem. But for this... I just think you're (both of you) better off just ditching the site.