Sunday, December 6, 2009

Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

He gave me a necklace for Christmas and he wrote me a note saying he really likes me, but im kind of interested in someone else.



Id rather send him a message on myspace because it would be easier for me.



what should i say?



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

Puh-lease DO NOT take the easy way out. That's just plain rude and bad taste. If you are going to talk to guys you are going to have to get used to letting some of them down easy.



You need to either do it over the phone or face to face. Face to face is preferable, but the phone will do better then Myspace. That would just suck.



Just kept it short, sweet and simple. Just say that you were very flattered by his gift but you don't feel you should accept it because you are currently seeing someone and you are hoping it will get more serious and it's not fair to him for you to give him false hope.



Just be nice and say your are sorry for the situation but never apologize for being honest with someone about where they stand in your life. As long as you are honest, never ever apologize for that.



On a positive note at least you were willing, no matter how tacky (myspace), to be honest about the situation. It's more then a lot of people would do.



Good Luck!!



lb



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

IN PERSON!



It's always best in person.



Good Luck.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

in person so that way you don't look like a coward. and he will no that you really are serious about what you're telling him.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

Do the right thing, face to face.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

why did you accept the gift? you need to tell him in person, and return the necklace.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

I think you should do it in person, but that's just me. Myspace seems so...not cool for something like that.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

PERSON!



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

Well first of all do you know him? If not, don't meet him in person. Just thank him for the gift but tell him that you like him as a brother.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

in person.... just say your not intrested



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

tell it to his face cuz over myspace would just hurt him even more.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

myspace is a lil embrassing becasue alll of his friendss can see it so try writing a note



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

in person and return the necklace to him



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

Do you even have to ask?



Do it in person!!



Doing it on myspace would make you look like you dont have the courage to tell him how you feel.



You wouldnt want other guys to think that you are scared to talk to them would you?



To me, I think he sounds sweet and that you should give him a chance.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

if it were a normal circumstance i'd just say myspace, but since he gave you a necklace, i mean c'mon. don't be mean. just give him back the necklace and say your interested in someone else. if he snaps or something at least you were the mature one.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

You also better not accept the necklace, if you really don't like him. Tell him any way you want but also don't take his gifts.



Can't have your cake and eat it, too.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

you should just tell the truth you shouldnt have accepted the necklace cause you just lead him on.now you have to just tell him how you really feel



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

in person............ on my space would make you look like you dont have any feelings and selfish of other peoples feelings so in person might be best



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

In person. Have some balls. The guy gave you a necklace for crying out loud. Get over yourself, give him the necklace and just tell him youd rather be friends and that you are busy.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

Well, you need to let him down easy, chances are it was



not easy for him to tell you that he really likes you. It would



be better to invite him out to lunch or just to get together and



explain that while you like him, your interests are upon other means at this time. If you think you could like him the way he



likes you, then I'd say give it a shot...but please let him down easy...



good luck



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

No MySpace. That's a big cop-out. It wasn't easy for him to tell him that he likes you, so you should give him the same respect and tell him politely and in person that you don't feel the same way. Return the necklace.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

Well, brake the necklace in front of him and spit in his face



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

In person of course!



And return the necklace.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

You should let him know you can be friends, but you're not interested in him as anything other than just friends. And, you should probably do it either in person, or the next time he calls you. But do it in a nice way. Boys have feelings too ya know. I helped raise 3 of them. You'd be surprised how much more sensitive boys are than girls.



Barb



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

Well, to be honest it is a selfish and shallow thing to do it over myspace. While it may be hard for you, it will be twice as hard (depending on how much he likes you) for him to swallow. Therefore, it is like a slap to his injuries. I think you really need to consider - are you doing this to be easy on yourself, or easy on the lad who likes you?



If it is not the second, I don't think you need to be liking anyone, because it sounds like your not being kind to someone you KNOW likes you...not to mention a guy who you yourself likes, what if that person you like did the same thing to you, would YOU be upset? Ask yourself that question, and there is your answer.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

my space. meeting him can give him a false impression of what you really feel



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

well you should say it in person because evan though it will be harder it will be better because its like being over a text message it just hurts evan more i had experince it happend to me and they imed me it hurt more because they couldent see me because it was summer but they could have at least called trust me call or in person most likely but what ever you choose good lluck you seem like your smart and no what to do



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

I would say in person, but he might get nutzo %26amp; violent, so I'd tell him online %26amp; avoid him.



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

First, do it in person. If you do it via the computer, phone, etc. it says very little of your character I think.



As to what you should say, it's very simple. You be honest. Do not sugar coat or lie. Just be honest.



Hope it helps!



-K



Should I tell this guy I dont like him over Myspace or in person?

no dice dude i like some one else...... On myspace (good bye dude).....

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